Child's sex education, regarding the guardians as if again simple: The boy is the boy, the girl is the girl, does not have what guidance to be possible to say. But, the expert pointed out that carries on the correct sex role education to the child is very essential, this not only will relate the child in the future the normal social interaction, the love, the marriage, the family life, will also affect its psychological development. The sex education final goal is helps the child to foster the perfect personality.
The male student speaks soft-spokenly,（Related Articlesbaby gift basket supplies The intelligent parents）, the movement is coy; The female student dresses up the neutrality roughy,kids clothes, the words and deeds rude and unreasonable ......Did not know really present's children how, the male student hasn't looked like the male student, the female student does not look like the female student. Mentions present's child, some guardians somewhat look not clearly. The expert believed that to the young people in the education, should strengthen the sex role the education, in the home education should also pay great attention this point.
The boy girl disposition characteristic is opposite
The small feather is high two female students, but had not combed the long hair from infancy to maturity, has not passed through the skirt, the conversation manner is careless, just like is a tomboy. In the small feather's class and grade, several look like she such tomboy, their disposition is frank, open and bright, frequently and group of male students are on intimate terms. , In the class and grade some male students manner is comparatively gentle,cheap baby gear, the disposition is delicate. The small feather said: Our many female students like Li Yu spring the youth free and easy image,ethnic baby dolls, thought that such is very graceful.
But some elementary school teaches the third grade Mr./Mrs. Chen to elementary student's excess of Yin and shortage of Yang felt that somewhat worried: In recent years, I discovered that the elementary school first grade newborn just entered the school that period of time, makes a tearful scene in the student the boy occupied the majority, the girl very has made on the contrary little a tearful scene, could adapt to the circumstances compared to the boy, the independent ability was also stronger. Even some girls quarrel, fight are also fiercer than the boy.
In the interview, some student guardian told the reporters anxiously, present's child has regarded the neutral appearance one fashion, the tidal current, I thought that some child men and women sex the difference somewhat has been slurred, how didn't know really should now the raise child.
after 3 years old, should raise the sex consciousness
At present domestic has education for children expert to point out that the kindergarten divides the restroom to have the very vital role to the child sex consciousness cognition, some kindergartens are also attempting this procedure. They believed that the sex role is carries on the division take the sex as the standard one kind of social role, it is deciding a person's behaviour pattern. If the people request the masculine behavior to manifest the male character, the feminine behavior displays the outwardly submissive but inwardly evil-hearted beauty. Although male or female maybe by heredity decision, but the sex role is actually receives the adult from the child time to affect, education result. The Hebei Normal university educates the academy of science psychology is Mr./Mrs. Yuan Li strong pointed out that present's child presents the above phenomenon, is because has some erroneous zones or the flaw to child's sex education, this very easy to create the child sex role the dislocation, will take to the child will be the mind distortion and the injury.
Now more and more parents care about and take the child puberty the sex education, lets the child academic society protect itself, cherishes itself, this is very essential. But the parents have often neglected the child the sex education which should start from the birth. The sex education is carries on the sex education to the child the foundation, is the child to own understanding initiation, is also the child forms the healthy personality the foundation. Therefore starts to the child to carry on the science the sex education is also since childhood very essential. Mr./Mrs. Yuan introduced that child's sex role consciousness will start from 3 year old of later to establish, but will form the sex role consciousness is truly after the child will enter the puberty. As for 6-12 year-old elementary school stage, child's attention shifts to the study society knowledge and in the interest raise, this stage belongs to the child sex consciousness incubation period. Therefore, must carry on the sex education since childhood to the child to be advantageous in the child forms the health the personality, enters the puberty after them the correct processing both sexes relations build the reliable personality foundation.
The baby stage receives the influence must the influence which receives the puberty child be much bigger. We discovered in the psychological consultation's practice that has human who the homosexuality favors, can trace the baby stage the experience. Mr./Mrs. Yuan believed that the guardian and the kindergarten should carry on the suitable sex education to 3-6 year-old child, teaches some basic physiological knowledge and protects oneself for them to realize, lets the child have a most basic cognition to oneself.
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