kids clothes Reminder After three years old, should raise the child sex consciousness

Child's sex education, regarding the guardians as if again simple: The boy is the boy, the girl is the girl, does not have what guidance to be possible to say. But, the expert pointed out that carries on the correct sex role education to the child is very essential, this not only will relate the child in the future the normal social interaction, the love, the marriage, the family life, will also affect its psychological development. The sex education final goal is helps the child to foster the perfect personality.

The male student speaks soft-spokenly,（Related Articlesbaby gift basket supplies The intelligent parents）, the movement is coy; The female student dresses up the neutrality roughy,kids clothes, the words and deeds rude and unreasonable ......Did not know really present's children how, the male student hasn't looked like the male student, the female student does not look like the female student. Mentions present's child, some guardians somewhat look not clearly. The expert believed that to the young people in the education, should strengthen the sex role the education, in the home education should also pay great attention this point.

The boy girl disposition characteristic is opposite

The small feather is high two female students, but had not combed the long hair from infancy to maturity, has not passed through the skirt, the conversation manner is careless, just like is a tomboy. In the small feather's class and grade, several look like she such tomboy, their disposition is frank, open and bright, frequently and group of male students are on intimate terms. , In the class and grade some male students manner is comparatively gentle,cheap baby gear, the disposition is delicate. The small feather said: Our many female students like Li Yu spring the youth free and easy image,ethnic baby dolls, thought that such is very graceful.

But some elementary school teaches the third grade Mr./Mrs. Chen to elementary student's excess of Yin and shortage of Yang felt that somewhat worried: In recent years, I discovered that the elementary school first grade newborn just entered the school that period of time, makes a tearful scene in the student the boy occupied the majority, the girl very has made on the contrary little a tearful scene, could adapt to the circumstances compared to the boy, the independent ability was also stronger. Even some girls quarrel, fight are also fiercer than the boy.

In the interview, some student guardian told the reporters anxiously, present's child has regarded the neutral appearance one fashion, the tidal current, I thought that some child men and women sex the difference somewhat has been slurred, how didn't know really should now the raise child.

after 3 years old, should raise the sex consciousness

At present domestic has education for children expert to point out that the kindergarten divides the restroom to have the very vital role to the child sex consciousness cognition, some kindergartens are also attempting this procedure. They believed that the sex role is carries on the division take the sex as the standard one kind of social role, it is deciding a person's behaviour pattern. If the people request the masculine behavior to manifest the male character, the feminine behavior displays the outwardly submissive but inwardly evil-hearted beauty. Although male or female maybe by heredity decision, but the sex role is actually receives the adult from the child time to affect, education result. The Hebei Normal university educates the academy of science psychology is Mr./Mrs. Yuan Li strong pointed out that present's child presents the above phenomenon, is because has some erroneous zones or the flaw to child's sex education, this very easy to create the child sex role the dislocation, will take to the child will be the mind distortion and the injury.

Now more and more parents care about and take the child puberty the sex education, lets the child academic society protect itself, cherishes itself, this is very essential. But the parents have often neglected the child the sex education which should start from the birth. The sex education is carries on the sex education to the child the foundation, is the child to own understanding initiation, is also the child forms the healthy personality the foundation. Therefore starts to the child to carry on the science the sex education is also since childhood very essential. Mr./Mrs. Yuan introduced that child's sex role consciousness will start from 3 year old of later to establish, but will form the sex role consciousness is truly after the child will enter the puberty. As for 6-12 year-old elementary school stage, child's attention shifts to the study society knowledge and in the interest raise, this stage belongs to the child sex consciousness incubation period. Therefore, must carry on the sex education since childhood to the child to be advantageous in the child forms the health the personality, enters the puberty after them the correct processing both sexes relations build the reliable personality foundation.

The baby stage receives the influence must the influence which receives the puberty child be much bigger. We discovered in the psychological consultation's practice that has human who the homosexuality favors, can trace the baby stage the experience. Mr./Mrs. Yuan believed that the guardian and the kindergarten should carry on the suitable sex education to 3-6 year-old child, teaches some basic physiological knowledge and protects oneself for them to realize, lets the child have a most basic cognition to oneself.

children's clothes The expert recommends the word Do not let the child too be obedient

Hears mothers to talk incessantly frequently: Isn't your this child how such obedient! But the experts warn the parents, is too obedient the child question is bigger, because they very possibly lose the more important thing - - creativity.

The experience proved that the mischievous boy often has the creativity compared to the honest girl. Its reason is the mischievous child contact face is broad, the cerebrum receives the stimulation were many, activated child's intelligence. Therefore, a spot being obedient to does not enhance child's creativity for the child to have the advantage.

Our China's old tradition likes the honest child. The parents always hope the child to be well-mannered, obedient, the child one mischievous cannot tolerate slightly, often is the tube has died, limits excessively many, for strangled child's creativity. Actually mischievous, active is child's instinct, is also the creativity development germ, so long as the big standard, do not limit are too many. Anything looks that adult's meaningful glance conduct, timid, in the future will be doomed the child who will be lacks prospects.

The creativity high child incurs the human to tire of

According to American Prosperous Nepal Soda college education psychology Director Torrens studies, the creativity high child has three loathful characteristics most:

1st, mischievous, mischievous, is absurd and is unconventional;
2nd, when actions over convention;
3rd, handles matters, is not tenaciously humorous, but has unavoidably plays the manner.

The creativity, is obedient, how to have both

First, we request in the child behavior to be obedient basically, fights all day, curses at people, is not obedient not good, but in the thought may not too be obedient, may have own idea.

Second, the child hour, is obedient primarily, must raise the good behavior custom, the child big should give a spot not being obedient, even in the behavior might also have own procedure.

American President Nixon has written a book ' the leaders ', he said that China's educational system may provide the very good education for the populace, but has actually lost China's Darwin and Einstein. Because China's educational system overemphasizes each person to every kind good, every kind does the unification, trains since childhood them tamely, does not allow to have the independent opinion, does not allow to have departing from the classics and betraying principle which Einstein called, like this can only raise safeguards one's heritage the talented person. The parents want the sincerity to deeply love the creation child,children's clothes, do not demand perfection to the child, do not use traditional the viewpoint to teach the child the man old before his time.

American scientist Fowke said gracefully: Tenacious and between the rigid both's difference is subtle, if your idea has succeeded, each people said you very rigid,urban baby clothes, relentless; If you have not succeeded, the people said you to be tenacious, incorrigibly obstinate. The westerner thought that should allow the child to be tenacious, because inside that possibly has rigid, should allow the child not to be obedient, because inside that possibly has creates.

Blue sun's implication

Overseas has a child, the parents lets him draw the sun, he has drawn a blue sun. Asks him: How do you become the solar picture the blue color? The child said: What I draw is in the sea sun. The parents said: The very good, you too had the imagination.

Some pre-school education expert to overseas saw that to a baby with a blue color stroke big apple, teacher walked said: , Draws well! Moreover caressed traces child's head happily, the child extremely. By now the Chinese experts asked the teacher: He uses the blue color picture apple, how don't you correct? That teacher said: Why do I want to correct? Perhaps he later really can raise the blue color the apple.

The foreign guardian tolerates the child not to be obedient like this makes sense, it may protect child's imagination,kids clothes,（Related Articlescute girls clothes LOL official producer Guinsoo t）, stimulates child's creativity. Allows the child not to be obedient refers to is mainly in the thought is not obedient, the children saw the world is unique, their imagination is very rich, if we use adult's thinking mode to interfere crudely to them, will strangle them the imagination and the creativity. A spot being obedient is not creates the thought for the child to them, the creation desire protection.

The tube does not die, is the highest boundary not randomly exactly and

In the creation personality dares the character to be very important, dares to think that dared saying that dared to do only then has the creation, for the child a spot being obedient was not the different opinions, dared to practice, this was very important. Our guardian should accept is obedient is a merit, is too obedient is the shortcoming viewpoint, the education must achieve the tube to the child not to die, exactly and is not chaotic.

The creation requires certain time and the space. If bundles stubbornly the child, spot free control's time does not have, how do they carry on the creation? The guardian should give the child more time and the space, lets them go mischievously, lets them go to the daydream freely, moves, creates.